The Importance of Prayer in Decision-Making
Teaching our children to pray might seem like rocket science, especially when we start mumbling ourselves. However, prayer is nothing more than a way for kids to reach out and seek comfort and support. It’s one of those unnoticed aspects that end up being incredibly vital.
In today’s world of overwhelming choices – do we go for the blue shoes, the red ones, or both? – even tiny decisions feel gigantic to them. This is why introducing prayer, to ask God for guidance, can help children learn to make thoughtful decisions, and also serve as a cheeky excuse for asking for more ice cream.
By showing them the little ways they can tune into God’s wisdom, parents can instill a sense of spirituality early on.
Starting with Simple Prayers
When introducing prayer, start small. Let them practice asking God simple questions like, “God, should I wear this today?” It’s cute and mighty endearing to watch them pause, close their eyes, and murmur.
If I had known at five that choosing what to eat for breakfast would be our lifelong dilemma, I would’ve asked God sooner! This approach not only makes the initiation non-intimidating but also integrates into their daily routine.
Tailor the prayer sessions to your child’s attention span, because, let’s face it, they would rather try fitting an entire cookie in their mouth. Starting with simple prayers builds a foundation that leaves room for exploration as they grow.
Making Prayer a Daily Habit
Incorporating prayer into a daily routine teaches consistency. Remember when brushing your teeth was a monumental task, but your persistence paid off? When children pray regularly, it becomes as natural as bedtime stories.
Find a moment that is already part of their day, like bedtime or before meals, and incorporate a short prayer. Make it engaging by looking out the window and connecting with creation, asking, “What blessings did God show you today?”
Spontaneity adds a spark of curiosity and joy, similar to finding an extra fry in your fast-food bag. It not only builds their personal and spiritual character but also ends the age-old question of when to fit in those extra prayers.
Handling Frustrations and Challenges
Every child, at some point, will find prayer frustrating – imagine asking for candy and receiving broccoli. Encourage them by sharing your own moments of struggle and reminding them that everyone has their days.
Sometimes speaking about God’s guidance doesn’t lead to an obvious answer, but learning to ask is just as crucial. You can even introduce a ‘no-sugar-prayer’ jar, in which they drop a token every time they ask for God’s guidance. This turns prayer into a fun, interactive activity and subtly teaches patience.
Guiding children through this helps them develop empathy and an understanding of the setbacks we all face.
Using Stories to Illustrate Guidance
Kids love stories, so using them is a perfect opportunity to explain spiritual concepts. Pick a tale, whether from the Bible or elsewhere, where a character asked for guidance and explain the outcome.
Remember how our hero was trapped between a rock and a hard place, only to find an unexpected solution? Relate this to their daily life predicaments, such as choosing between favorite toys.
Not only do stories hold a child’s notoriously short attention span, but they also help solidify the understanding of how guidance can illuminate even the darkest tunnels.
Share stories when curled up with a hot cocoa to make the lesson cozy yet engaging.
Encouraging Open Conversation About Prayer
The best moments happen when least expected – like your child surprising you with a funny question about prayer. Encourage open conversations, perhaps discussing family decisions and letting your little one suggest prayers for guidance.
It could be anything from:
- Deciding on a weekend activity
- Sorting out bickering toys
These conversations not only reinforce the concept of prayer but also offer them a say in family decisions – a proud moment, albeit maybe a bit chaotic!
By inviting these discussions, you create a supportive environment that assures them that seeking guidance is both normal and wonderful.
